The Gold Digger – Is She Really A Bad Person?

This article is about an unfriendly term for a women who dates a rich man – the Gold Digger.

There are women in the world who enjoy a life of abundance. As such they pursue and date wealthy men exclusively. “Rich” is one of their criteria for a potential partner.

People are different throughout the world. Every difference comes with its own pleasures and comes with its own pressures. Being rich is only one of those differences and its not for everyone. If you don’t think there are pressures for the rich, just look at the gossip section of any magazine. Not everyone can handle the pressures associated with abundance. That is why for so many people, winning the lottery is the worst thing that ever happened to them. It destroys their life.

People have different priorities in life. For some people, commitment to their business or career is their number one priority. This is what earns them their riches. Personally, its not for me, I’d prefer a life of love and fulfilment through commitment to family, but thats just where my priorities lie. For others though, life is about earning and enjoying all the luxuries life has to offer. This is what brings out the best in them as people.

I know that lifestyle isn’t for me. The costs would be too great. Which is why I don’t get the gold digger label. Someone else understands that that type of lifestyle is for them. Its the lifestyle that brings out the best in them. They actively pursue the lifestyle by dating people who can share it with them and then others label them as a gold digger for their trouble. It isn’t even any of their business.

So if you know what you need in life, just go for it. There will be detractors no matter what you do. If you need a wealthy man to be the person you want to be, good luck to you. There certainly are enough websites out there to cater to your needs.

And never mind those who are detractors. Their opinions always say more about them anyway, than they do about you.

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