After my boyfriend left me I was desperate to get him back. I tried everything I could think of, but none of it did any good…

Then one day my luck changed. I came across the secret to getting my ex back and everything turned around for me. Before long we were back together and back on track. Today we’re happier and better than ever!

So how did I do it? How did I get my ex boyfriend back?

First of all, anyone who tells you that reconciling with an ex will be easy is flat out lying to you. It wasn’t easy, but it sure was worth it!

I learned that there are ways to get him back and keep him back forever. You just have no know the secret…

But don’t give up.

Your mission is simple. You need to convince your ex boyfriend of two things: 1) He is better off with you in his life 2) You were happy together once. You can be happy together again.

Here are just a few tricks I learned along the way:

#1. Never show that you are desperate. I made that mistake when I tried to get my ex boyfriend back, and it totally backfired. He must have thought I was a total psycho!

2) Keep him interested but don’t pressure him into getting back together. You could end up losing him forever if you push too hard.

#3. Let him feel like he’s in control. He will start to relax and open up to you again.

4) Do whatever you can to remind him of the electric bond you once shared. Chemistry is a hard thing to ignore. There are specific words and actions you can use to get that fire started again. You just have to know the secret….

Take it from me, these tricks really work.

Don’t waste another day missing what you used to have. Arm yourself with the secret and go get your ex boyfriend back!

If I could Get My Ex Boyfriend Back, so can you! Find out the secret to a happy life, great sex and an amazing relationship. It’s time to make your own happy ending. End the misery and get him back today! Why wait another minute??

If there’s one thing every single guy on the face of the planet has experienced at one time or another,it’s rejection.

Who hasn’t fallen for a girl, only to find out that she doesn’t feel the same way about you?

Indeed, rejection can be extremely painful to experience. It’s almost as if every time a girl gives you the brush off, she’s saying there’s something wrong with you!

And let’s face it – nobody likes to feel like they aren’t good enough.

A lot of men will do ANYTHING to avoid it, and end up making things worse for themselves.

They’ll pout, lash out, or just run from it.

One thing you definitely shouldn’t do is try to convince her you aren’t interested in her by going along with her rejecting of you.

This usually leads to the “just being her friend” gambit, where the lovelorn man pretends to be the girl’s friend, just so he can somehow try and desperately salvage the situation.

But as we all know, this trick rarely, if ever, works.

So what are your options? Well, you could just walk away and look for a girl who is more open to you. Or, you can try and turn that rejection into attraction.

So say you don’t want to just walk away. Be ready for some hard work on your part.

I’ll tell you more in part two.

Have you ever noticed that women will often-times say one thing, but mean another?

You’ve seen that happen before, right?

For instance, sometimes a girl will say “I only like to date guys who are taller than me.”

And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.

Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.

And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.

Sometimes the woman says she’s looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.

And then, she’s seen galavanting around with some dirt-poor schmoe who doesn’t have a penny to his name.

Any way you slice it, there are countless women who say they like one thing, but in truth respond to something else entirely.

This is called “Girl Speak.”

A big problem guys have is they don’t know how to properly translate “Girl Speak,” so they end up taking what the girl says literally.

But this is a huge, HUGE mistake!

Women very rarely say what they actually mean. And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.

Take me for instance…

I’m a fat, bald, ugly shlub. Definitely no winner in the looks department.

But I’ve dated women who say they aren’t into “fat” guys. In fact, they actually prefer guys who “take care of themselves” and “go to the gym.”

Yet they still agree to date me!

I’ve dated girls who were way younger than me. One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old. I’m 30. This girl wasn’t interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.

I dated one girl who only liked black guys. Me, I’m white as white can be. Seriously. They don’t get any whiter than good ol’ Joe. But again, the girl made an exception.

In part 2 of this article, I’ll tell you how I made these exceptions happen!

You, unfortunately, are a geek. There, it’s been said. You’re away from your geeky fun for the moment, whether it be a Warcraft raid or a Star Trek marathon, and you have some free time.

Some free time that will undoubtably be spent alone.

You decide you want to get a little female companionship in your life. But it’s not like those medieval L.A.R.P fairs you go to where you can knock a damsel over the head and drag her back to your tent.

This is the REAL world, and you want to get yourself a real woman. So how do you start?

Step #1: Clean yourself up

Geeks typically aren’t the most fashion conscious types. Most of them are happy wearing their various assortments of t-shirts, jeans, and flip-flops.

But we’re talking about attracting women here, and like it or not, ya gotta try and look your best. Now, you don’t have to look like a full-on club-goer, but we gotta clean ya up a bit.

Get a nice haircut, shave, wear contact lenses if you need to, don some shirts you DIDN’T have in high school (you know, the ones without any band names or superheroes on them), and ditch the jean shorts buddy!

Hey, just because you look like a cast member from Revenge Of The Nerds, doesn’t mean you need to continue to do so. A person’s looks reflect how they feel about themselves. So try to look like you care. Take some time with this.

Looking like a well groomed adult is going to help with this, immensely.

Step #2. Investigate current pop culture

Like it or not, you’re going to have to familiarize yourself with the current goings-on of all things Hollywood. TV shows, celebrity gossip, hot new bands – the works!

Why? Because you’re going to need something you can talk to girls about, and EVERY girl is into pop culture.

A word of warning here – Star Trek, Star Wars, or anything with the word “Star” in it is NOT part of pop culture. At least not the kind women like. Take all that geek knowledge you’ve accumulated and set it aside for now. You’re going to be slumming it for a while.

First off, start watching VH1. A lot. Catch up on the reality shows on that channel. Studies show 89% of available women watch Reality TV, and VH1 is the king of that kind of programming.

Listen to the radio and go on iTunes. This’ll help you check out the latest popular music. If you’re feeling really saucy, turn on MTV.

Brush up on blogs like PerezHilton.com to find out who’s gay, who’s sleeping with who, and who’s having some dude’s baby.

Silly as it sounds, it’ll pay off in droves later.

More tips in part 2 of this article!

Every guy wants to know how to attract women.

The truth is, we all don’t have spectacular looks. Most of us are average, or even below average looking. And believe it or not, even good looking guys have a hard time attracting women.

So what does that mean for all of us who want to get a woman all hot-and-bothered? Well, the logical conclusion is this:

Attraction cannot depend on what you look like!

Obsessing over your looks (or lack of them) is a sure-fire way to take yourself out of the attraction game before things have even gotten started. Understand that you need to take care of yourself and tailor your appearance as well as you possibly can. But short of extensive and painful plastic surgery, you can’t change what you look like.

So if you can’t change it – deal with it!

Luckily, there’s more to attraction than just your physical features. Accept that you look like the way you are, and deal with the things you CAN change, and actually have control over.

See, the “attraction equation” is more than just about being a good looking guy. It’s about your attitude, your intellect, and your social skills and status.

1. Attitude Is Everything

Having the right attitude is essential to generating attraction. Confidence is key, here. Being secure in who you are and what you’re after is a great way to show people that you’re someone they will want to meet and hang out with.

And with the right attitude, your body language and non-verbal communication will naturally broadcast to those around you that you are an attractive person.

2. Engage In Intelligent Conversation

Conversation is the cornerstone of attraction. Your words can help lead people into the type of emotion you want them to feel. But more than that, if you can engage in good conversation, you will captivate anyone you’re talking to.

There are two ways to do this. The first is asking questions and showing genuine interest in what the other person has to say. The second is telling stories.

Stories are the best way to make people experience emotion. Everyone loves stories, and if you have good ones to tell, people will love talking to you.

3. Master Your Social Skills

Being attractive is about interacting with people in the right way. You need to be fun, entertaining, and a good conversationalist.

You also have to know what’s appropriate in certain social situations. Being loud and boisterous at a fancy dinner party may not be a good thing to do. Always be aware of the environment you’re in and act accordingly.

Be laid back, and try not to take things too seriously. Getting insulted or frustrated when things aren’t going as you planned is a sure fire way to alienate the people you’re trying to attract. Allow yourself room to mess up if necessary, and keep from being insulting or rude.

But most of all – have fun! The best way to be social and attract people to you is to have a good time. People love having a good time! In fact, they will seek you out if you can be the source of their fun.

4. Cultivate A High Social Status

More than anything else, having a high social status will attract more people to you than you know what to do with. And social status doesn’t have to have anything to do with how much money you make or how good looking you are. In fact, social status can be completely manufactured!

By being the life of the party, or dominating the conversation, you can show people you’re someone who demands attention. By being funny or witty, intelligent, commanding, and confident, people will naturally defer to you.

When this happens, you become an authority figure of some sort – and the more authority you have, the higher your social status.

When you combine these four factors, you can powerfully attract any woman you choose. (And the best part is – none of it depends on your looks!)

One of the hardest things for a shy guy to do is to meet a woman he likes.

In fact, this is no small feat for most guys, but even more so for the guy who considers himself to be “shy.”

I’d even argue that shy guys tend to get the short-end-of-the-stick, so to speak, when it comes to women and relationships in general!

The reason for this is that if a girl is shy, she can still have guys coming up and approaching her, and eventually find a boyfriend. However, your average shy guy isn’t going to get women coming his way anytime soon.

It’s the sad reality of men is that we are the ones destined to be the pursuers. Women won’t approach us, we have to be the ones to walk up to THEM and do all the work.

If we don’t approach, we don’t get the girl.

Sucks, right?

And sadly – shy guys just don’t approach women! And because of this, they tend to end up alone and desperate most of the time.

Well, don’t worry too much. Approaching women isn’t as hard as you might think – ESPECIALLY if you’re dealing with shyness. You just need to follow a few simple tips, and before you know it, you’ll be dealing with more women than you can handle.

1. Memorize A Few Good Pick Up Lines

One of the biggest reasons why shy guys don’t approach a woman is because their brain FREEZES and they can’t think of anything to say.

Coming up with something cool to say off the top of your head is rarely easy unless you have that gift. Having a good pickup line is a great idea just for this situation. If it’s good and you know it will work, then don’t hesitate.

Pick up lines get a terrible rap, and it’s understandable why. Most are awful. Stuff like “Are your legs tired? Because you’ve been running around in my head all night.”

Ugh. Bad, bad mojo.

A good pick up line is simply something that engages a girl and gets her TALKING to you. Once you get a conversation going, you can take it pretty much anywhere you want.

Using a line like “Hey, in your opinion, would you ever want to date a guy who spends three hours a day in the gym?” is much more effective than any of the bad pick up lines you hear.

It may seem like a random question, but you’re asking her about a genuine opinion she might have, and of course, this conversation can lead to talking about past relationships, guys she’s dated, and what she finds attractive in guys (all good information to know, right?).

A good pickup line doesn’t have to wow the girl. It just needs to get her talking. But try and stay away from chatting about World Of Warcraft and your Star Trek DVD Box Set. Save that convo for the third date.

2. Utilize The Power Of Negative Visualization

A big reason shy guys balk at meeting a girl is because they are too “intimidated” by her beauty. It makes them nervous or scared to approach.

That’s why I recommend you use the power of “negative” visualization to make that hot chick seem less desirable!

Imagine her with really hairy legs, a moustache, a huge boil on her nose, and really bad body odor.

Not so appealing anymore, right?

When a shy guy is able to turn his attraction level for a woman down a few notches, it helps him to find the courage to approach her, because suddenly, she’s not so intimidating anymore.

It will help you relax, considerably. And who knows, you might just have some fun.

Make sure to read part 2!

Every guy out there wants to know how to make out better. Let’s be honest – it’s fun! It also leads to things escalating to the bedroom.

Most men underestimate how important a good make out session is though.

Making out with a girl is a big deal. It’s usually the thing that happens between you and a woman that is totally unambiguous. You can’t go backwards from a make out session. It’s the bright red dividing line between “friends” and “romance”

When you make out with a girl, it becomes undeniable to each other that your relationship is more than just a “friendship.”

No matter how much you hang out with a girl, flirt with her, or touch her, everything can still be considered “innocent.” Even if you both are certain that your relationship with each other is progressing into romance or the bedroom, making out with each other removes all uncertainty from the equation.

The real danger in making out with a girl is the fact that the act of kissing, touching, petting, and all that other stuff releases the tension you’ve built up to that point.

Without this tension, there’s a danger there of “losing the moment” and having the girl lose interest. Trust me – this happens more than you’d think. Without good timing and good follow-up, making out with a girl can kill your chances with her in the long term.

Since kissing is usually the first unambiguous part of making out, once you and a woman start flirting and connecting, and you begin to build that tension, she starts anticipating it.

She’ll imagine what it will be like to kiss you. She’ll wonder if you are a good kisser. And so on. That tension and ambiguity is fun and exciting for her. It keeps her interested.

After you kiss her though, the tension and uncertainty are gone.

You need to avoid this sort of letdown so that you can escalate the make out session. To do this, you need to re-establish the tension after you start to kiss her.

This is important because you want to keep her on that romantic emotional high she’s experiencing. Without sexual tension, those emotions she’s feeling could disappear. To create more tension during your make-out, try this:

1. Kiss her like she kisses you. If she’s a soft kisser, kiss her softly. If she’s using a lot of tongue, use your tongue a lot. People kiss the way they like to be kissed! Use that to your advantage.

2. Don’t stay lip-locked for too long. Pull back, break off the kiss, then go back in again. a long sessions of short kisses is better than a short session of long kisses.

3. Tease her physically. Run your hand up her leg, but pull it away before you get too high . Run your hand up her lower back, under she shirt. But don’t take this too far! Again, you don’t want to make her uncomfortable by moving too fast.

4. Kiss her neck. Don’t stay on the lips, move to her neck, her shoulders (if you can), and her ears. These are all erogenous zones, so if you spend some time kissing them, it will work to get the girl you’re with more excited.

5. Talk to her. Don’t forget the power of auditory stimulation! Break off from a kiss occasionally and whisper in her ear. Ask her to re-affirm what’s happening. Say things like “Does this feel good?” or “Tell me how much you like this…” The more you can get a girl to affirm what’s happening during the make-out, the more tension you’ll build.

Whatever you do, don’t try and start making out with a girl if you haven’t done your job and created tension beforehand! This is a good way to blow your shot at her.

This tension is the key to a good make-out session. You need it before you start, and while you’re making out, otherwise, you’ll run into trouble. Never forget that.

It’s a sad fact of life that everyone out there has some type of insecurity that makes them feel “unattractive.” Even the most beautiful women in the world have stuff about them that makes them feel ugly at times.

Men do this, and it isn’t helped by their visual nature. We end up critical of our own appearance, just as much as women.

Maybe it’s the fact that we are too short, or fat, or bald, or old? There are any number of factors that make us feel “unworthy” of the attentions of beautiful women.

But if that was the case – no one would ever be able to attract a woman at all!

In fact, the next time you’re out, take a mental note of every guy you see with an attractive girl, and try and appraise whether or not you think that guy’s looks are worthy of the girl he’s with.

Sure, sometimes you’ll find a guy who’s with a girl and they are both fine credits to their species. But most of the time, what you’ll find is the guys with really hot and appealing women range from “average” to “ugly” in the looks department.

That’s because beauty – in men – is the exception, not the standard.

But more than that, men rely on factors OTHER than their looks to help attract women to them.

There are three major factors that most men try and utilize to the best of their ability when attracting new and exciting women to them. They are:

1. Wealth

2. Social Status

3. Personality

Let’s go through these one at a time…

The first factor, being wealth and finances, is a powerful forces. More wealth means a better provider, and it’s a guarantee that a lot of money will garner you some really attractive female attention. It just makes sense for them.

Using wealth as a tactic is problematic, however. Not everyone has a lot of money, so if you don’t, forget trying to use this tactic. As well, using money can come off as trying to buy love, or impress them. Some women will treat you like an ATM machine if you do.

Keep in mind that there is nothing wrong with using financial success to draw women into you. But unless you have the money in the bank to do so, you can’t rely on this method to get you a good woman.

The second factor is social status. Women are very attuned to the social hierarchies of things, so having a “high status” around women definitely makes any man more attractive.

This status comes from holding a certain position of power. It could be an important job, some type of fame, or just the esteem of your peers.

However, one of the difficulties with this is that you need to be able to display social status. You can’t just tell someone “I’m a very important person” and have them believe it. They have to get a sense of it themselves, and sometimes your situation is not conducive to communicating this (like meeting a woman on the street for instance. She has no idea who you are!).

Also – not everyone has a high social status. Some people are content with maintaining a medium to low level status. Where does that leave these people?

With the THIRD factor – that of Personality. The thing I like about personality is that it’s something EVERYONE can use to attract the kind of women they desire, and it doesn’t matter how much money you make or what your social situation is like.

Having an attractive personality is the best way for “average” or “unattractive” men to get women interested in them. Being able to make a woman laugh will turn her on more than a guy with big muscles and a full head of hair.

Understand that women are slaves to their emotions, and your personality is the method by which you trigger emotions inside a woman!

The better your personality, the better you’re able to make a woman feel.

And your personality is something that can be changed and cultivated over time. You can make yourself into anything you want to be! It’s truely amazing how some “losers” can become “rockstars” in the eyes of their friends and the women they like just by tweaking their personality a little bit.

So how do you do this?

The first step is to really work on your confidence. The more confident you are, the better you’re able to display your personality.

Working on your social skills will also help you to be relaxed and have fun around women. This will create new opportunities for attraction.

And learning how to create strong emotional bonds is also the best way there is to get a woman emotionally attached to you.

Practice these techniques, and over time you’ll find that you’ll be able to gain the heart of any woman you want, no matter what you look like.

It doesn’t matter about your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are always thousands of women out there who are desirous of meeting you and eager for your company – whether it’s short-term or long-term relationships that you want. If you have found yourself suddenly on-the-market again after a split-up or divorce has occurred or if you are just too busy with your job to spend much time looking for a person to keep you company, Internet dating can open up the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an online connection to get you going. The first thing you should do is look for an Internet dating agency that meets with your needs. There are the large professionally-owned sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and also, a lot of sites that cater to special niche interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, disabled, inter-racial etc.

You need to select one or two that appear to meet your requirements. I dont go for the free sites myself as the paid sites have a money back guarantee if you arent satisfied and the investment is small – a whole month costs less than a dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts youand do so promptly not, however, on holidays or weekends. You dont want to appear that desperate.

Dont give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many of whom, will want to meet you.

Every so often, you’ll find a woman that you click with, but you aren’t looking to commit to. So you stay friends with, while also remaining intimate.

The issue with these arrangements is that they tend to stray from the usual agreement, generally when the woman wants more and tries to pull you into a relationship. To stop this from happening, you need to lay some ground rules.

Here are some tips for keeping the “Friends With Benefits” alive and well, for as long as possible.

1.No spending the night.

Letting her spend the night, or spending the night at her place sends the wrong message! It communicates a desire to settle down. If you can, keep the encounters at her place, and then leave. It’s much nicer than kicking her out of your place.

2. Keep cuddling to a minimum!

Doing a lot of intimate stuff is going to create an emotional desire for more. Avoid this! You want to keep things physical rather than emotional. Fifteen minutes of cuddling is the max I would recommend. But displays of affection is generally discouraged.

3. Do not enter into a “Friends With Benefits” arrangement while drunk.

There’s a difference between a one-night stand and a friend with benefits. But entering either drunk is not wise. God forbid there’s a beer-goggles situation. You don’t want to go to bed with a supermodel and wake up with a dog, do you? Besides, don’t you want to be sober enough to remember all the marvelous fun you had the night before?

4. No leave-behinds!

Do not allow the girl to leave any of her stuff at your place! No toothbrushes, no clothes – nothing! There should be no ties at all. Believe me, women WILL try and do this if they’re over enough times, just for “convenience.” But it’s really a doorway into moving more and more things in, until she’s effectively attached herself to you.

5. Don’t discuss anything real.

Remember, we’re trying to avoid intimacy here, and nothing creates intimacy like talking about important things. No family history, no favorite colors, no goals, no personal triumphs or tragedies. If you want to keep it a friends with benefits situation, you have to stay light: movies, bands, and favorite brands of booze.

6. No cute pet names.

No sweetie, honey, schmoopie allowed. Once you start with the nick names, a sense of ownership is implied. Don’t even call her “babe.” Keep it to her name only, because once you start with the terms of endearment, she’s going to get the wrong idea.

7. No dinners, no movies, no “quality time” of any sort.

If she insists on going out at all, meet her at a bar for drinks no earlier than ten o’clock at night. The hour between nine and ten is the gray zone between when a real date starts and when it’s just a hook-up. Going out late means you don’t have to go through the effort of buying her dinner and talking, you just want to get to the good stuff.

8. Hide all evidence of your arrangement.

Throw out all condom wrappers (although you should no matter what), change your sheets, and don’t get any hickeys, bruises, bites, or scratches if you expect to date anyone else any time soon.

9. Always play it safe!

One of the sad realities of life is that women will sometimes do dirty things to hook a guy, and one of those things is getting pregnant. So always, always, ALWAYS use condoms and birth control when playing with your friend with benefits!

And more importantly, be sure to properly dispose of the condoms after you’re done! Flush ‘em down that toilet to make sure there’s no possibility of “leakage.”

10. Pee with the door closed.

That’s a bit too personal, and a bit indecent. And it’s for marriage.

Are these rules harsh? Maybe, but then again, this type of relationship might not be something you can handle. I know many people who can get it on and not get attached, but most just can’t do it. Understand it can be a cruel playing field, and ask yourself what you are willing to do, or not do. Let that question be your guide.